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Thomas Barlee

Thomas Barlee, LCSW

Therapist · Delaware · 9+ years of experience

Practical therapy for life and relationship changes

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At a glance

Listed location
Delaware
Experience
9+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Delaware)
LCSW · No. Q1-0012051
NPI
1386386837

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  • Values focused
  • Calm listening
  • Action oriented

About Thomas

Thomas Barlee is a Delaware-based licensed clinical social worker who helps people facing relationship struggles, low mood, anxiety, and anger. He focuses on practical steps clients can take to feel steadier and more connected. Thomas aims to make the first step less daunting and provides steady support along the way.

He creates a calm, nonjudgmental space for people to talk about difficult feelings. Sessions are conversational and grounded in what matters most to the client. Thomas listens for values, strengths, and small changes that build better days.

Thomas blends several approaches to match what each person needs. He uses acceptance and commitment ideas to help clients clarify values and take workable steps. He also draws on cognitive behavioral tools to notice thought patterns and try new behaviors.

Mindfulness and client-centered ways of working show up in sessions as simple practices and open-ended listening. Motivational interviewing helps when someone feels stuck or unsure about change. These methods are used to address concerns like grief, caregiving stress, addictions, ADHD, and life transitions.

With nine years of experience and the LCSW credential, Thomas brings steady clinical experience without judgment. He works with adults on issues that often arise across relationships and life stages, including aging and geriatric issues. If someone wants straightforward help to manage stress, cope with loss, or rebuild connections, Thomas offers an approachable place to start.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

Delaware

Languages

English

How Thomas’ approaches translate to online therapy

Thomas uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people identify what matters most and take small steps toward those values. ACT focuses on actions that fit a person’s life and is useful for stress, anxiety, and life changes. Client-centered therapy shows up as open listening and empathy, giving people space to tell their story and find their own direction.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used to spot unhelpful thinking and practice different behaviors. CBT works well for low mood, worry, and anger by breaking problems into small, manageable pieces. Thomas combines these methods to match a person’s goals rather than sticking to a single approach.

Finding the right method is part of the work, and the therapist will collaborate with each person to choose what fits best. Goals, preferences, and daily routines guide which techniques are tried and adapted over time.

Confirm the available session formats before you book so you know how meetings will take place. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Many people find this flexibility helps keep progress steady while juggling caregiving, work, or other demands.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Thomas commonly help with?

He helps people with relationship and intimacy problems, anger, depression, anxiety, stress, addictions, grief, parenting strain, caregiver stress, ADHD, and related issues.

What is his therapy style like?

Sessions are conversational and client-centered, with practical tools drawn from cognitive behavioral and acceptance-based approaches to support change.

How much clinical experience does he have?

Thomas has nine years of professional experience working with adults on a range of emotional and relationship concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he licensed?

He holds the Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential, listed as LCSW, and is licensed in Delaware.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and he also accepts international clients.

What session formats does he offer?

Please confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are available for scheduling.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

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