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Patricia Sumlin

Patricia Sumlin, LMFT

Therapist · Washington · 25+ years of experience

A practical, direct therapist for life transitions

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At a glance

Listed location
Washington
Experience
25+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 44844
License (Washington)
LMFT · No. LF 60059026
NPI
1891899027

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  • Hands-on coping skills
  • Focus on relationships
  • Support for aging issues

About Patricia

Patricia Sumlin is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of experience who helps people facing stress, anxiety, grief, relationship strain, addiction, and the day-to-day pressures of caregiving and aging. She works directly with clients to name priorities, learn practical coping skills, and build steady routines that feel doable. Her style is straightforward, honest, and nonjudgmental, with a focus on real-world tools rather than jargon.

Patricia draws on a mix of clinical approaches to shape each plan with the person in the room. She emphasizes emotion regulation, clearer communication, and skill building so clients gain confidence in managing mood, sleep, and relationship patterns. Sessions often include problem-solving, behavioral strategies, and attention to how attachment and life history affect current choices.

Her background spans community mental health, hospice bereavement care, residential programs, and work in rural Alaska. That variety informs how she frames treatment for people living with chronic illness, caregiving burdens, trauma history, addictive behaviors, and neurodiversity concerns such as ADHD and autism spectrum questions.

Patricia offers support for people navigating aging and geriatric issues, caregiver stress, and the transitions those bring. She also works with LGBTQIA concerns, identity questions, and recovery from traumatic bonding or narcissistic abuse.

Her sessions aim to balance practical guidance with respect for each person’s story. The goal is to leave clients with usable tools and a clearer sense of direction for the next steps in their life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

California, Washington

Languages

English

How specific approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice what matters to them and take small, guided steps toward those values while also learning to accept difficult feelings. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns; it is useful for mood, sleep, and stress management. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationship patterns affect current trust and closeness, which can help with intimacy and relationship conflicts.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to pick or blend methods based on goals, preferences, and what shows the best progress. That means sessions may try different tools and check in often to adjust course together.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, shorten check-ins when time is limited, or avoid travel time so clients can focus on skills practice. Licensed professionals can guide exercises, teach coping strategies, and help plan realistic steps that transfer into daily life through remote sessions, depending on the session formats offered.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Patricia work with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, caregiver stress, aging and geriatric concerns, ADHD, and related challenges.

What is her therapeutic approach and style?

Patricia uses a straightforward, nonjudgmental style. She combines practical skill building with attention to attachment, behavior patterns, and emotional regulation.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 25 years of experience working in a range of settings including hospice, residential programs, outpatient clinics, and community behavioral health.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a LMFT licensed in California and Washington and practices in Washington state.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a session with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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