Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Wendi Cancilla

Wendi Cancilla, LMHC

Therapist · Washington · 24+ years of experience

Compassionate clinician for life transitions

Continue with Wendi

Opens BetterHelp in a new tab, where you can review online therapy options.

At a glance

Listed location
Washington
Experience
24+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (Washington)
LMHC · No. LH60234805
License (Florida)
LMHC · No. MH13969
NPI
1194958934

Copied as listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

  • Practical tools
  • Trauma-informed care
  • Aging and geriatric issues

About Wendi

Wendi Cancilla is a licensed mental health counselor with 24 years of experience helping people cope with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and major life changes. She focuses on practical steps people can use when they feel overwhelmed. Wendi works with clients who are facing trauma, caregiver strain, addiction concerns, and challenges related to aging and geriatric issues. Wendi favors clear, goal-oriented work. She often uses strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and habits. Motivational Interviewing helps people find their own reasons to change, and Solution-Focused Therapy keeps conversations grounded in small, achievable goals. These methods are used to handle panic, sleep problems, low self-esteem, and relationship strain. Her background includes long-term work with survivors of assault, veterans, and people managing chronic illness. Wendi also supports parents dealing with pregnancy, postpartum issues, and parenting stress. She pays attention to how past loss, abandonment, or adoption histories can shape behavior and relationships. Sessions tend to be collaborative and straightforward. Wendi listens for patterns, offers tools to test between sessions, and helps people set practical steps they can use right away. She uses trauma-focused ideas when needed to address intense or persistent symptoms. Clients can expect a calm, affirming approach that emphasizes resilience and real-world change. Wendi aims to help people understand themselves better and build routines that reduce distress and increase stability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger management

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefSleeping disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesHIV / AIDSIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSexual assault and abuseVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

Washington, Florida

Languages

English

How Wendi’s Approaches Translate to Online Care

Wendi draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people spot thoughts and routines that worsen anxiety or low mood. CBT focuses on small changes in thinking and behavior that can improve sleep, panic, and daily functioning. Motivational Interviewing is used to help people find their own reasons to change and to build momentum for new habits. This approach is useful when someone feels stuck or unsure about next steps. Finding the right fit is part of the work. Wendi collaborates with each person to choose approaches that match their needs, goals, and comfort level. Together they review what is helping, try different tools, and adjust the plan over time so it stays useful and manageable. The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Many people find that remote sessions make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins, or reduce travel time. Online work can support applying CBT exercises between meetings, using Motivational Interviewing to track small changes, and keeping momentum during life transitions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Wendi commonly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, parenting strain, addiction-related issues, and coping with life changes including aging and geriatric issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Wendi uses a practical, collaborative style. She focuses on clear goals, small steps, and tools clients can try between sessions.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has 24 years of clinical experience working with survivors of assault, veterans, people with chronic illness, and adults navigating family and parenting challenges.

What credentials and location are listed?

Wendi holds the LMHC credential and is licensed in Florida and Washington, with practice based in Washington state.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Confirm current session options with the provider before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Wendi CancillaContinue with Wendi