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Selena Zafar

Selena Zafar, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

A warm, client-led counsellor for life transitions

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At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
3+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 394199

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  • Client-centred approach
  • Focus on identity
  • BACP registered

About Selena

Selena Zafar offers calm, non-judgemental support for people facing life transitions and emotional strain. She meets each person where they are and helps them work through concerns such as anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and relationship problems. Sessions are focused on the client’s priorities and move at a pace that feels right for them.

Selena uses a client-centred approach, which means she listens carefully and follows the client’s lead. In practice this looks like reflective conversation, gentle questioning and space to think through difficult feelings. She aims to build a warm, accepting atmosphere that helps people name and clarify what matters to them.

Her background includes a Master of Science degree and three years working in counselling. That personal and professional experience shapes how she supports people with identity and cultural issues. Selena identifies as biracial and brings awareness of multi-faith and multicultural family dynamics into her work when relevant.

She specialises in bereavement, race and sports psychology alongside broader concerns such as addiction, parenting stress, compassion fatigue and ADHD-related difficulties. She also lists aging and geriatric issues among areas she attends to, alongside common problems like depression and coping with life changes.

Selena is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP. Sessions are offered in English and she works with clients in the United Kingdom and internationally through the service. To begin, clients use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Client-Centred Therapy adapts to online support

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening, empathy and trusting that the person knows their own life best. In practice the counsellor reflects feelings, asks open questions and follows the client’s lead to help clarify goals and decisions. This approach is useful for concerns like anxiety, depression, relationship and identity issues.

Selena’s work emphasises a warm, non-directive stance that encourages people to explore grief, cultural identity and life transitions at their own pace. That collaborative tone means she will discuss what feels helpful and adjust sessions according to each person’s needs and preferences.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm the current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also let people connect across time zones, which supports international clients. The therapist will work with the client to decide how to structure sessions so they suit everyday life and therapeutic goals.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship problems, plus bereavement, identity and cultural issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She practises Client-Centred Therapy, offering reflective listening and a gentle, non-directive approach that follows the client’s priorities.

What background does she bring to sessions?

She holds a Master of Science degree and has three years of counselling experience, along with personal experience of therapy that informs her work.

What professional registration does she have and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are accepted through the service, so people outside the UK may be able to connect with her.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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