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Joni De Groot

Joni De Groot, LMFT

Therapist · California · 35+ years of experience

Compass for stress and relationship change

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At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
35+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 29377
NPI
1619734506

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  • Client-centered
  • Practical skills
  • Mindfulness informed

About Joni

Joni De Groot, LMFT, helps people manage stress, anxiety, relationship challenges, parenting strains, and caregiving burdens. She works with individuals and couples and offers coaching-style support to navigate life transitions. Her emphasis includes aging and geriatric issues among many other concerns, and she brings a practical approach to everyday problems.

Joni uses a mix of client-centered listening and cognitive-behavioral tools to help people notice patterns that shape their choices. She also draws on dialectical skills, Jungian ideas, and mindfulness to broaden how clients understand their feelings. Sessions focus on clear steps people can try between meetings, not just talk.

She has worked in outpatient clinics, schools, residential settings, and sub-acute care for more than 35 years. That history includes roles as an intake coordinator, case manager, and team therapist collaborating with psychiatrists and social service agencies. This background informs a flexible, realistic style of care.

In practice, Joni aims to help clients see their situation from a wider angle and build practical skills for day-to-day life. She frames therapy as a collaborative exploration where the client leads and she offers methods that fit each person’s needs. The goal is often relief from anxiety, better relationship habits, and stronger coping skills for parenting and caregiving stress.

Her work is grounded in long experience and a focus on measurable change. People who prefer a straightforward, supportive clinician find her approach approachable and oriented toward real-world results.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

35+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How her approaches shape online therapy

Client-centered therapy emphasizes listening and following the client's lead. The therapist focuses on understanding a person’s experience and reflecting it back to help clarify goals and next steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at thought and behavior patterns and teaches practical strategies to reduce anxiety and change unhelpful habits. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, adds skills for managing strong emotions and improving interpersonal effectiveness.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with the client about needs, goals, and preferences and suggest a blend of methods that fits each situation. Decisions about techniques are made collaboratively and can change as progress is made.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit visits into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and let people choose quieter times that work for them. Many people find online meetings reduce travel time and help keep continuity of care during life transitions. Licensed professionals tailor the approach so therapy can focus on usable skills and clearer thinking, even when meeting remotely.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and parenting issues, caregiver strain, and a range of related concerns including aging and geriatric issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and practical, combining client-centered listening with clear behavioral tools and mindfulness exercises to produce everyday changes.

How much experience does she bring?

She has practiced for 35 years in settings that include outpatient clinics, schools, residential care, and sub-acute facilities.

What credential and region does she work under?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, practicing in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are costs and billing handled?

Costs vary by location and the therapist's availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin therapy?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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